26 December 2009

How can you say that love is wrong when the very essence of love is God? Isn't that like saying God is wrong? If God is love and God is perfect, then love can never be wrong. I don't even buy the idea of loving the WRONG PERSON. That to me is crap. Why? Simply because the idea of loving is borne out of pure emotions. Love is a feeling that is innate in each and every one of us. We were all born because of love. It's something that is instilled in each and every one of us even while we're being conceived. So basically, when we love, we do so because we felt something in our hearts for someone other than ourselves, other than family or friends. To others, the person we choose to love might not be the best one for us and they scoff at the idea of us finding happiness and love in someone who doesn't perfectly fit the bill. But then, who are they to judge? We love someone even if they can't seem more wrong for us because WE SEE SOMETHING IN THEM THAT OTHERS CAN'T OR DON'T WANT TO SEE. See wherein lies the difference? Acceptance. When we love someone, we wholly accept him for who and what he is and is not. That's because love is unconditional. Saying that love is wrong is inconceivable because love makes us better persons. It brings out the REAL US. Besides, how can something personified by God Himself ever be so wrong? Perhaps it's the timing that's not right or maybe some other factors that can always be worked on. But to say that there's such a thing as wrong love or loving the wrong person? Never.

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