There are some single people who set a timeframe for themselves as far as finding a significant other is concerned. Sometimes, in the process of looking for their "supposedly" someone special, they forget to look after themselves. That shouldn't be the case, I think. I believe that in order for you to be truly happy with other people, you have to learn first how to be contented and happy alone.
I honestly beleive that it's only when you become in touch with yourself that you realize how important it is to first be a whole person before being able to share your life with someone else.
So to those who haven't yet found their someone special, I think it's great to have this mindset: don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship; don't hurry love. Being single might suck at times, but it seriously does have benefits. You'll see that it also pays to be single. Just take the time to realize the numerous opportunities and chances that await you and are yours for the taking while you're still single - things which may already be few and far between once you commit yourself to someone other than yourself.
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Napakalalim at profound ang artile na ito. Words of wisdom from someone who has been there. Importante talaga na matagpuan muna natin ang ating sarili at magkaroon tayo ng inner peace bago tayo magdesisyong makipagrelasyon sa iba. Pag marami tayong insecurities ay maibabahagi lang natin ito sa karelasyon natin na maaaring humantong sa away at hindi pagkakaunawaan. Sabi nga, learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else. Pag hate natin ang ating sarili ay maaari nating maipasa ang hatred na ito sa ibang tao. If God is at the center of our lives, we have inner pace and joy. Thanks for the post. God bless you always.
oo nga sis, nakakapressure for single person to have a special someone specially when you are already in your 30's. when you have a special someone in your 30's, people around you keep on asking when you'll get married.this is the usual question i get from relatives and friends, minsan nakakainis kasi paulit ulit yung ganitong tanong. but love and marriage should not be hurried because there's a proper time for everything di ba? specially marriage it's not just the wedding day that we should prepare for but what follows after it because it's a commitment for a lifetime.
napahaba yata comment ko. hehehe.
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